“I knew he would pick up the check, get us home, that his sheets would be clean, and that in the morning he’d make me coffee and eggs, kiss me, and hand me money for a cab.

Essentially, I was ‘taken care of.'” Scorpion points out that her lover’s age made him less selfish and more committed.

In fact, you may find that dating an older man is actually easier than dating a man your age who is less mature than you.

According to an article in Ask Men, women who date older men often do so for a variety of reasons.

When it came to finding love in New York, Amber Soletti, a 42-year-old who lives in the West Village, had no luck dating older guys or men her own age.

While they were “well-established and articulate,” she wasn’t physically attracted to them and found they had too many issues.

“When you’re an ambitious woman, it’s very difficult — you either have to subsume what you wanna do for somebody else, or live with the struggle to fight your partner on top of business survival, and it’s a very unhealthy relationship,” says Nicole Wipp, a 45-year-old attorney and entrepreneur, who found a perfect match in her husband, Marcus Sutherland, a 33-year-old paramedic.

“Dating somebody younger than myself, there’s an acceptance of ambitious women — it’s more normalized.” They met at the University of Hawaii in November 2002, when she was a law student and he was a sophomore undergraduate.“You’re less likely to date a younger guy who’s been divorced, has children or has sexual performance issues.” In 2011, she met Juan Cabrera, now 34, at one of her mixers and soon fell in love. “Millennial men are career-focused and want to travel with successful women and conquer the world together,” says Soletti, who notes she’s seen an uptick in established women signing up specifically to meet younger bucks at her speed-dating events.Such May-December couplings are no longer seen as relationship outliers — or indicative of deep-seated mommy issues.In other instances, society’s reaction may be hostility, like when a fat old guy gets caught checking out a college girl.Even though most Westerners believe “love is love,” for some reason they rage and judge when they come across examples of legal age-gap relationships, with words like “creepy,” “controlling” and “manipulative” thrown around about the guy….We all know the Melania and Donald Trump relationship stereotype – a young, beautiful woman paired up with an older, more mature man.